Wednesday, July 6, 2011

it's the little things.



my honey just got back from the land of intricately blues-y, handcrafted painted pottery.  also known as Poland.  it was a gorgeous green hill country, so i'm told.  he was there to lead worship for a group of missionaries that were on  their annual rest and recovery retreat. 


we missed him to pieces for the nine days he was gone.  by the way, i don't know how military families do it.  nine days was hard.  i can't imagine months upon months.  makes me appreciate the service men and women all the more. i don't know why, but when your other half is half-way across the world, the minutes apart seem slower than ever before.


thankfully, he graced my arms again last night and i breathed a big sigh of relief to have him home safely.

in the midst of the nine days...

i found out my grandfather (the only father figure who's been alive my whole life) was in the hospital with days left to live.  there's nothing that they can do... cancer has overtaken his body.  i know it all too well... my grandmother and father died in the same year of the same disease when i was nine.  it feels like all those emotions are being relived.  i know that everyone must die.  and when you're a believer, like my gramps is, to die is gain!  i know all that.  it's still sad, though.  my mom and sister have been out in California with him for the past month.  the miles seem farther when you want to be there and see him one last time.

to add to my already anxiety,  my step-dad and brother were on a sailing excursion from Charleston to the Abacos Islands to get in some open ocean miles for my brother who is on a sailing team.  mid-way there they lost the engine.  not a major deal because it's sailing, but still, it's always good to have an engine.  they got the engine fixed and then were struck by lightning and lost all mechanical power.  no gps.  no lights.  nada.  they turned back and miraculously made it back to Charleston.  lets just say i'm glad i heard the details after they got home safely.

my nerves were a bit on edge after all those happenings without my hubby here to calm me down.  : )  i'm looking forward to a hopefully low-key week this go around.  my man brought a gift home for me from a missionary.  it said "thank you for being willing to send your husband here to minister to us.  i know it's hard to be the one to stay home, so thank you.  i pray blessings upon your family."


 this was the exquisite gift - a polish pottery cross ~



i teared up a bit... someone half across the world that left the comforts of their home, to minister full time in a foreign land, thought of me - someone in her cushy home with all of her American comforts - why?  this is why:


she wanted to love on me and encourage my heart... because love is of God.  i was encouraged to the moon and back.  it was more than thoughtful... it's the little things that make hard weeks a little better. Pin It

34 {comments}:

Adriel (The Mommyhood Memos) said...

Oh, that's so precious! It's hard to be the "stayer". My husband and I have been missionaries in Australia for 11 years... just a couple of months ago Ryan was gone in Papua New Guinea for 4 weeks while I was home with my 14-month-old (as well as being newly pregnant). To say it was hard is a vast understatement!!! In a few weeks I take Levi with me to New Zealand for a week since I am guest speaking on a training school over there. (And my husband stays home with other ministry commitments here.) It's a blessing to go, and a blessing to stay. But both are hard in their own ways. But I do agree with your long-distance "friend" - it's harder to be the one who stays... but no less important. What a sweet reminder of what love is. And what a great example she sets for the rest of us to follow.

Holly said...

That mug is beautiful! And I am so sorry to hear about your grandpa, I'll keep him in my prayers and hope that things happen in God's time. That is so sweet that they sent you that cross...what a wonderful thing to have to remember your husband's trip by!

Lane said...

What a precious thought from someone so many miles away! Way to hang in there while your husband was gone! That was certainly a lot to deal with, but so thankful that you know the One who can handle it all!

Bree Holloway said...

What a precious note! How toughing that someone would think of you, and send you a gift. :)

I'll pray for you family in this time - about to lose a loved one is very hard. I just lost my grandfather, and my other grandfather died before I was born. It's hard, I know, but God is with us.

love,
~bree

JDaniel4's Mom said...

The boat trip sounds scary to me. I am so sorry that your grandfather isn't doing well at all.

LeAnna said...

The genuine body of Christ is so beautiful. I will pray for your family during this hard time with your Grandfather. {hugs}

Kelley said...

I have a cross very similar to that from poland. that letter is so sweet. God surely knows what our hearts need when we need it.

Vicki said...

Thanks for sharing what's going on in your life. I'm praying for your gramps and for you as you're already missing him. Glad your husband made it home safely, I'm sure this trip ministered to him as much as it did to the missionaries!

The Carters said...

Praying for your grandpa and peace for your family.

Kelli @ RTSM said...

Don't you love when the little things happen just when you need them...otherwise you probably wouldn't even notice them! I hope you have a nice relaxing week to make up for the stress of last week:)

Kelli said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather...I'll be praying for you. So glad that your step-dad and brother made it safely back to shore...that is scary. I know you are beyond grateful to have your hubby home, to lean on his shoulder. What a gift he provided in Poland. That is a gorgeous mug and cross...both things to cherish. You are a blessing.

Maura said...

so sorry to hear about your grandfather! keeping you all in my prayers

Stephanie said...

So sorry about your grandfather! I will definitely keep your family in my prayers. And what a thoughtful gift- it is so amazing to have those things to look back on and remind you of God's work :)

Lauren said...

that card is making me cry... how precious! I just love the body of Christ!!

So glad that your husband is home with you now! Praying for your grandfather and family!

(oh and BEAUTIFUL mug and cross - wow!)

Annie said...

it is indeed difficult to be the one who stays behind to watch others go, although my position is as one who has gone before and now has to save money for rent and college instead.

i went to poland a couple years ago on a mission trip, and they do have the most beautiful pottery. i was given some as a gift by the missionaries we served while we were there... i love it.

Domesticated-Bliss said...

Saying a quick prayer for your grandpa - cancer is a thief - I pray for his doctors to give him as much comfort as they can.

What a blessing that your husband got to share his faith with a new bunch of people in Poland!

The cup and the cross are both beautiful :) Glad to hear your brother made it home safe from his journey - that's scary!!

Farmgirl Paints said...

glad your sweetie is home. mine is in VA right now...i know the feeling of being a little off without them.

so sorry about your grandpa. i HATE cancer. praying for you and your family.

what a precious love letter you got. that was just precious!

Natalie said...

It's SO hard to be away from your love. No matter if it's one night or one hundred nights! It just stinks :( I don't know how military does it either! My brother is a Marine and I ask his wife that ALL the time! I can't imagine.
So sorry to hear about your grandfather. I will be praying. So glad you will see him again someday!

Krista said...

I will pray for all your men Carrissa! That card is so great, how thoughtful and wonderful. Encouraging indeed.

I love the mug and cross, I did not know Poland was so known for pottery. You learn something every day :)

Lisa @ Life is Crazy Beautiful said...

Praying for you with your grandfather situation. When my last living grandparent died I said, "I feel sort of like an orphan. No more grandparents here on earth!" So thankful your step-dad and brother are fine and that you got your hubby home safely. I LoVe polish pottery...and how awesomely sensitive of the missionary to remember you and what you were going through! Blessings to you and your family Carissa :)

Emily said...

That is so thoughtful of her to give you such sweet words and gift.

What a blessing indeed!

I'm so happy he's home and back in your arms. :)
Praying for you and your family over your grandpa. Its a relief in knowing he won't need to suffer any longer and gets to be with our Lord soon. hope you're doing okay.

mama marchand said...

First, I love the new header - it's beautiful. Second, I know how hard it is to be the pastor/ministry wife that's at home when the hubby is away. How absolutely WONDERFUL of that missionary to thank YOU for allowing him to go and be God's blessing to them. :) I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather and will be praying for all of you!

Dan and Olivia said...

Yay so glad Kelly is home! that pottery is so beautiful, i know you will proudly display it in your house! what a selfless and compassionate card you received, it is so easy to think of ourselves first, but that missionary has given up everything and had the selflessness to think about what you were going through without Kelly!! what a good reminder! Love you!

Hilary Surratt said...

wow! I am so glad that Kelly is safe back in Charleston! Also, glad that your brother and step dad are ok too! That gift is seriously the sweetest thing ever! You are such an awesome wife, have a great weekend Carissa! :)

Liz said...

So glad your husband is back home! What a sweet note she sent you, what an incredible way to bless someone. The cross and mug are gorgeous. Praying for you and your family during this time.

Liz

Dove of Snow said...

So sorry about your grandpa! I pray you and your family find great peace and comfort in God and His promises right now!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Polish Pottery! Don't they just make the most beautiful pottery and designs? And the cross is amazing. I am a fan of crosses, especially necklaces. I would love a miniature of that for a necklace! ;) So glad your husband's back home safely. I can imagine how much you'd miss him! Great post!

Anna Baur said...

What a beautiful post! I am so sorry to hear about your Grandfather, but I am glad that you have some comfort, even if it is still sad for you to be losing him for a time. But I am very glad your family got home safe from their crazy sailing expedition and that you got such a sweet momento from such amazing people in poland! (my dad's side of the family is 100% polish, so I have a soft spot for that country!)

p.s. I accidentally deleted your comment when I tried to publish it from my last blog post...sorry!! I don't know how I did it, but I didn't want you to notice and think I chose to not post it. I just can't figure out how to get it back now! Lol!

val said...

so sweet! Im happy for you that hes home. Im apart from my love now and its hard. I have faith that we will be together again soon!

Anna of IHOD said...

Nothing better than a hand written note! And wow, that pottery is beautiful. Hope you are having a wonderful and blessed week!

Cindy Foote said...

Lovin' this post! Thanks for sharing. And, btw, you take great pics:)

Meg said...

What a sweet blog!! I love it here, thinkin I should stay awhile!! :)

Yana said...

I'm sorry about your grandfather... It is sad, but you are right, to die is gain. Blessings to you and your family in this time. And isn't it amazing how God would use someone from across the whole world to encourage you? I love God-moments like that.

Simplegirl said...

Those are beautiful Polish Pottery Pieces. I'm a collector, well I was. I stopped after we moved back to the states. I enjoyed your post and hope that you have blessed weekend with your beautiful family.

A Day in the Life... said...

how thoughtful and encouraging!