Friday, August 5, 2011

come away to the north bay

something terrible happens when you're born and raised in the north bay area of san francisco... it ruins you for living anywhere else.  and leaves you feeling bluer than a smurf after visiting and then having to go back to home in charleston.  charleston happens to be a humidity hot spot of the south, i think yesterday ended up being about 107 degrees.  when you've just enjoyed temperature ranges from the 60's-80's for eleven wholesome days, anything over a hundred degrees feels like a blazing hot furnace taking your very breath away, which could contribute to the blue-ness.  since i've now talked about the weather in the last three posts, i'm ready to receive my senior citizen discount.  ; )

for eleven days i was with family, had one child to take care of instead of two (easy peasy!), my mom was like sage's second mom (contributing to the ease factor) and i didn't have to worry about a single food allergy (hunter is allergic to eggs and anything that might touch them).  minus the sadness from my grandfather's passing, it was easy... a break from reality.  yesterday, reality hit hard as i was back to being a mom of two, two and under, with daddy working a 14 hour day.  we were plumb out of groceries and since i'm car-less on most occasions, we had to eat goldfish dipped in peanut butter.  - which isn't half bad; it may become a regular around here. 

so yeah, if i'm being honest, it was a hard day.  i want to take a little break - and take you away to the north bay, the country of wild california poppies budding this way and that... to show you why i love this land like i do.


i'm taking you to petaluma, my birthplace - which happens to be the former egg capital of the world - nestled in the heart of sonoma county.  it's about thirty miles north of san francisco - you even get to cross the golden gate bridge - twenty miles from the napa valley, an hour's drive from the redwood forest, a thirty minute trip from the beach, woven with farm country, rolling hills, and victorian homes.  the year round temperatures average (this is my last weather report - promise!) a comfortable, blissful 50-80 degrees which is simply pleasing and satisfyingly comfortable for my outdoor loving self.


sometimes i forget that i was raised near the farming country.  i usually think that's reserved for the midwest and the plains.  


on the way to the beach, you come across winding roads spotted with cows, while travelling the scenic highway 1 route...


with pretty palm trees lining the way... 


until you reach the pacific where cliffs lead you to watery waves made for surfing.  my favorite spot is bodega bay with a population of 900.  it's a beach town if there ever was a beach town.  there are simple, no frills seafood joints spread about with the best calamari and clam chowder you might ever eat in your life.





i'm certain i leave a piece of my heart here every time i visit.  i celebrated my 9th birthday on these beaches, had a bon-fire party and then my dad died of cancer a few weeks later...  my irrevocable love for this bay is nestled deep in the corners of my soul and has only grown since the earthly absence of my grandfather.


coming back from the beach into petaluma, you near the old union pacific railroad station,


the victorian homes fill the downtown area, 


with brick alleyways 


and vintage consignment shops,


leading me back to my grandparent's house that holds a harvest full of hearts and flowers - sweet, sweet memories from my childhood on.  i used to create plays, be a dolphin trainer at sea world, climb trees, dance ballet, all in this backyard ~  


my love says he will move me back one day; i hope he is right.  : )

-carissa

i'm linking up today with my blogger-turned-real-life friend, rachel.  because petaluma is my favorite!



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31 {comments}:

Bree Holloway said...

Oh, beautiful! I love CA. :)

~bree

Mallory said...

Beautiful pictures. I am in my home town right now in North East Pennsylvania and I know when I return to Florida in a week the heat is going to seem unbearable. It's kind of ironic that you were born in the egg capital and later had a son who is allergic to eggs.

Heather from wearetheholdens.blogspot.com said...

It looks to be beautiful. I've never been to Ca...but maybe one day. I do live in S.C. and you are so right..it is nastily hot! :)

Meg said...

Speaking of goldfish and peanut butter, a fun little something to go along with....
put peanut butter in a bowl, use a pretzel rod as your "fishing pole", dip your pretzel into the peanut butter and then go fishing for your goldfish. The kids LOVE it. A fun way to eat a snack!! :)

Grace said...

Wow. Beautiful. I often feel that way when I go back to Canada...but more like I belong in two places. As I tell my husband, we have moved so many times I don't know that I really have a "home" anywhere but I absolutely love the countryside in Canada. Guess it's because it brings me back to my childhood.

Alicia said...

what a beautiful place, i'd be homesick too :( hope you get back there someday!

Vicki said...

Petaluma sounds like a beautiful place to live!

JDaniel4's Mom said...

This makes me want to go and explore your hometown.

Kelli @ RTSM said...

It looks like a beautiful place! We've hoping to explore some of California next summer when we hit the road in our camper:)

Rachel said...

Sweet in real life friend and bestest blogging friend -- this post is beautiful. When I read about the beach and your birthday party and how just weeks later your daddy died my eyes welled with tears and ached for your nine year old self. I can see how and why the memories run deep. Are a part of you.

It looks like the most beautiful place. A place that I'd someday like to visit. Who knows? Maybe one day you and I will eat at one of those seafood places. I believe it totally could happen now -- flying together on plane makes me a total believer that there really isn't anything that's impossible. Someday. We'll be there. And we'll write about that adventure as well. :)

You are still in my prayers. Especially now as you readjust to being home -- I know it took me a bit when I got home from South Carolina to settle back into my groove. Hug on those sweet kids of yours.

Love ya. And thanks for linking up. You know you are a fave. :)

Rachel
who wrote you a lengthy reply once again. I am simply unable to keep the comments short. ha ha ha

Laura@Cowboy Boots said...

what a beautiful time you had....the weather sounds to die for....i can feel ya on the 109 temps...i'm frying here. i guess we should be grateful we aren't preg in this heat for once

Jessica @ This Blessed Life said...

I feel exactly the same way about Connecticut, even down to the calamari and the clam chowder! (Ironic, right? Since they're on opposite coasts? :).

Anyway, my heart used to ache so badly when we had to drive away from a visit. I prayed that we would move back and that God let Chris fall in love with Connecticut, too. Well...clearly He did, and here we are. I know what it's like to be in love with a place, and feel blissfully at home there...I hope someday your dream will come true.

Emily said...

I absolutely loved your entire description of Petaluma, so so beautiful.

I'm actually going up to San Fran this weekend and you make me want to skip it to see all that you just described. :)

I hope today is going better for you and the kiddies. Have a 'cool' weekend.


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Natalie said...

I love Petaluma! We went to a church there when we moved up to Santa Rosa from southern California. Its so pretty there! :)

Kelli said...

I feel like I was there...the pictures are so stunning. I see why you love it so much there. Hopefully, under better circumstances, you can get back there soon.

Ande said...

The picture of you and Sage is so beautiful!

Farmgirl Paints said...

well no wonder you are sad. that made me depressed and i'm not even from there. maybe you should go for a charleston walk...when it's not 107 and take in that town. i've been there. it's charming too. maybe not half as great as where you were from, but beautiful nonetheless. you had me with the cows you know. goodness me!

Meg Fletcher said...

Petaluma! I didn't know you were from there! We were living in Mill Valley and we would escape to Petaluma when we wanted to feel "normal" again. I'm from the Cali. Central Valley so we loved seeing farms again!
Also the Old Chicago Pizza place? How good is that pizza?! So yummy! A very beautiful place to live...

Kerri said...

how amazing! California is like a different world. i hope your hubby keeps his promise ;)

Katharine said...

No wonder you love it, it looks beautiful!! Thanks for sharing!

Kelley said...

I love your words! And your heart that shines so beautifully through your words. Sorry for the rough return...it's always hard for me to readjust too - hey, at least you had goldfish and pb! Hate that I missed linking up this week...thought about it daily until Thursday when I finally gave it up! Ha! Hopefully next week :) Your home is beautiful. Thanks for sharing. Happy weekend!

Annie said...

beautiful pictures of a beautiful land. thank you for taking me to CA today. i hope to go there soon in person!

Lea also known as "CiCi" said...

Oh, I so enjoyed my trip this early morning. You have a beautiful way of describing and made me feel as though I were right there with you.

Blessings to you on your upcoming birthday week and may the Lord bless you in His own special way. Hugs!

cait said...

this is beautiful...what a treasure of a place! thanks for sharing this special piece of your heart!

Michele said...

That was beautifully written. So heartfelt. I know that feeling of leaving a piece of your heart in a place. It makes you appreciate the here and now even more even if there's a small piece of you longing for somewhere else.

Gwen Toliver said...

Perfectly lovely, Carissa. Those of us who aren't from CA possibly imagine it as being all Baywatch-reruns...and thus a state to avoid :) Thanks for this beautiful capture of your home state!

Julie Coney said...

I grew up to your south... just a wee bit south... in a former chicken town. A sleepy little suburbia nestled in the hills between Hayward and Pleasanton.

I like you leave a hunk of my heart in Ca. every time I leave. The weather, the fog, the sea air.... the changing coastline from north to south... pumpkins in Half Moon Bay, chowder on the wharf...

if i keep listing things, I will be too nostalgic to function...

Thanks for sharing the wonderful pictures of home.

chris said...

it is a beautiful place. ive been to almost all the places youve mentioned. we took a vacation from ventura county (where i am from) all the way up to your parts. we stopped everywhere and camped. it got more and more breathtaking with every mile. i remember we hit a laundry mat in petaluma! i miss it too and while i dont have the crazy humidity i have dealt with the heat of AZ. thankfully we live in NO AZ not the PHX area! i miss the beach!toooo
thanks for sharing carissa.

Rebekah said...

I'm obviously way behind in my blog reading.... Carissa, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather. I know you've come and gone, and your heart is still healing, but so so sorry to hear. We will certainly continue to be praying for your family.

We would love for you to move back to the area! We love it so so much! Everything you mention is part of what I love about here too! Wish we could have seen you while you were here!

Krista said...

How amazingly beautiful! Thanks for sharing all your pics of this beautiful place. How lucky you are to have such a place be a part of your life and hopefully one day you will get to go back for good.

Blessings Carissa!

Dove of Snow said...

Carissa, can you consider adopting me and my husband and we can all of us move out there and live as neighbors in beautiful CA? We can be like sisters and neighbors! I LOVED the time I lived in CA and I really, really want to go back and a post like this makes my heart yearn even more! ;) Beautiful pics!